Everytime i try to be nice it always backfires. Like shit, i’ll just be a mean bitch to everyone, how do you like them apples.
just so we’re clear:
- getting called out for doing something shitty is not the same as “getting hate”
- if someone is telling you that you did something shitty, they are not criticizing you as a person
- messing up does not make you an irredeemably awful human being
- but how you respond to criticism can be a pretty good indicator of your awfulness
i just made a lil song made up of quotes from mrs dalloway… pretty proud y’know, sounds like a legit song even though the quotes don’t really rhyme